Showing posts with label children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label children. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Don't Judge Me!!!

.I have been meaning to blog about this but just have been a bit busy lately...hey what do I keep telling you about that judging me thing! STOP IT!  HA HA...well miss me? Yeah I missed you too *hugs my readers*. Ok, now that I got that mushy stuff out of the way, I wanted to tell you about a lesson that I taught my 5 yr old daughter complete with a visual aid.

Here we go...this was the night of June 25, 2011.  We were with some friends and getting some frozen yogurt at a new establishment. Which by the way was so friggin good, oh but I digress. When we left from Peachwave (name of the awesome frozen yogurt place) we crossed the street to find a man chained to a light pole with a blind fold and his mouth taped. Somewhat like this picture (but he was not a business man at least not dressed like one that night) 
At any rate as we got closer he has a sign on his around his neck that read...
"This is a silent protest of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and transsexuals, to demonstrate how this group of people have be silenced and unable to be free." 
I thought to myself hmm that's an interesting protest.  Well as I let this all sync in three things happened. 1) My 5 yr old daughter was demanding to know what was going on  2) the homeless guys behind the man began taunting and cursing at the man 3) 3 KCPD cars showed up in full force.

Well my daughter asked me, "Mommy what is that man doing?"  I just said remember when I told you we have to stand up for we believe in like when you had your issues at school? She said yes mommy...I said well that is what that man is doing.  He believes in something and he is protesting for what he feels is right.  She said oooooooh ok, she said do you think its right. I said what he believes?  I said well sweetie,  I believe that we have a right to protest what we believe in.  I said and what he is doing is very brave so never be afraid to stand up! 

Well after I explained that to her then we have Tom, Dick and Harry the homeless guys heckling the silent protester.  Yelling at him, calling him names telling him how wrong he is for his beliefs/lifestyle... well people, I have to be honest...this frankly pissed me off!  This blog is not about gay rights etc...but I was pissed off because you know that whole judgement thing I joke about, where here it was live and in color.  
They kept going and my reaction was an instant ... followed by me yelling..
"Really, really you going to yell and tell this man how wrong he is, like your lives have turned our right (I know I was wrong for that but geez).  Ain't that a bout a b&^$!, as soon as he uncuffs himself you'll ask him for a dollar.  So don't judge anyone! You hate when folks look down on you for being homeless." 
 Oh the nerve of some people... Next up we have 3 cops cars...my thought here again was is this really necessary...6 cops for one guy who has been apparently chained to this pole for hours.  They were ready to taze and take him in. I really felt it to be unnecessary what happened to the right of assembly and protest.  The man was clearly not bothering anyone.

One thing that this incident made me reflect on is something that my daughter said.  She said "ok mom, so he is different?"  I said "yes sweetie he is different...", before I could say anything else she said" but thats ok because God made and loves us all."



All I could do was smile...because as the bible says the truth comes out of the mouths of babes. God's Love, Grace and Mercy knows no boundaries.   I am not saying I am in support or against any thing.What I am saying is that we are all unique we are all God's children and one sin is no greater than another.  It is easy to judge someone or show prejudice and not even realize it, why because we are all sinners and we all do it...ALL OF US.  However, let's try to remember to love one another as God loves us in all our wretchedness.  We do alot of things displeasing to God but guess what he loves us anyway undeserving and all.Why? because he is awesome.

So blog ya later but one image I want to leave you with is this..  


Christ didn't just die for one group of people He died for us all, we are all God's children.  He paid the price for our sins with his blood.  Jesus paid it all and all to him we owe! So he is the only one worthy of judging us.  Remember when you point a finger at someone you have three more point back at you.  Also, the methods in which you judge someone, so will you be judged.  So just remember to Love one another accept differences. They are that persons cross to bare not yours so why are you so bothered by it (and this is not just on sexual orientation, its on everything)?  I''m just saying....and if there are things not right in your eyes of what you see it in the bible then you know what  rest assured that God doesn't need your help in his judgments.  He will be the judge of us all, so let him do his job and you do you.  Sound fair...thought so...K? Well blog ya later homies :)

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

What the Hell are They Talking About in Music Today...


Ok, Ok, I just felt compelled to post this blog...maybe you agree maybe you don't. Who knows, but guess what? It's my blog so ha ha!! Juuuuuust kidding. At any rate getting back to the reasons I felt compelled to post this blog regarding some of the music today is the following:





I can't listen to the radio with my child in the car without having to change the channel because of the lyrics of some of the music allowed on the radio. Now I understand the whole freedom of speech, I get that...Lord knows I have some stuff in my ipod that is not "kid friendly," however I listen to it without my child around. BUT the radio is public, it's sad that some of these songs are played around the time kids are going to school or getting out of school. Which leaves some parents riding in silence, popping in a CD or turning on a iPod. Why you ask? Well, because I don't know about you, but I don't want my kid singing Rude Boy by Rihanna talking about 'Getting it up'...She is 4. Or the 'neighbors know my name' by Trey Songz?! Are you kidding me! We have to do better as a society we say we care about our children but we need to show it. Some lyrics get through that are so not child appropriate, now im not saying it needs to be Radio Disney but c'mon. How many kids know every word to Lil Wayne's CD but don't even know their ABC's. Maybe have certain times of the day to play certain songs...I don't know...but that is not what this blog is solely about so let's move on to the next main topic...


Lyrical content...Which is the main theme. What the hell are some of these artist talking about...I mean...come on really?! Either every other word is a cuss word or its just so vulger that it would make a sailor blush. I listen to songs with cussing but when every other word is s&^% or F*&^ or P*^&( then you lose me). Besides the song should tell a story about something but I guess with some sort of class. But hey what do I know...pssssshhhhh class what's that?! So you still confused about what I am talking about well lets do a brief review of 3 songs I have chosen . I will post the lyrics and even the youtube videos for your laughing I mean listening pleasure (actually pretty sad). So ridiculous that you laugh because its soo pathetic... Ready? Ok, after you...llleetttt's go...

Pregnant Lyrics: R.Kelly, Tyrese, Robin Thicke, The Dream

Girl you make me wanna get you pregnant,
Girl you make me wanna get you pregnant,
Lay your body down and get you pregnant,
Knock you up, pregnant, Knock you up

Can you believe I’m in the club with a girl who has a man,
And take her to the hotel for just a one night stand,
See I’m a playa so I ain’t tryna take her on no dates,
To much like my patrone man I’m just tryna take it straight,
Untill I met this girl in the club with an unbelievable booty,
Sweetest girl in the world and I mean it and on top of that shes a cutie,
I ain’t seen nothing like her around here in a while,
And if I had a girl she’d be the one to bear my child,
Telling myself I’m a playa so I keep tryna shake it off,
But I keep on seeing this big old house with a picket fence and a dog,
Never felt nothing like this,
Shes more than a mistress enough to handle my buisness,
Now put that girl in my kitchen,

Girl you make me wanna get you pregnant,
That’s what I told her,
Girl you make me wanna get you pregnant,
Lay your body down and get you pregnant,
Like you are,
Knock you up, pregnant,

All the pretty ladies please line up right next to me,
How would you like to go on a little trip with your boy Tyrese,
Raise your hand if you want me to fulfill your fantasy,
I can hide your co-star and get in one of my new wiis,
Tell me what your name is,
I can make you famous,
We can pop champagne and get right down to sexing,
Now I ain’t got nothing to do tonight I gotta wait for my crew,
I just wanna put some in you,
And I can tell that you want it too,
And I’m ready babe,
And your ready babe,
So let’s go get out of this club,
Kel’s and Rys after party,
You can F*** with us,

Girl you make me wanna get you pregnant,
Girl you make me wanna get you pregnant,
Lay your body down and get you pregnant,
Knock you up, pregnant.





Ok now honestly after reading that..aren't you like...

I know I was when I first heard this mess. Oh but it gets worse you don't believe me...ok Ill keep going...

Next up...a song that makes absolutely no sense but out of the nonsense is one phrase to demean women! WWWHHHHYYYYYY does this get air time....HHHHHOOOOOWWWWW are they getting paid off this mess...Im not being a hater Im simply saying are you friggin kidding me...really?!


Shorty Da Kidd ft. Loudy -
Wah Wah Wow

AYE THIS YO BOY LOUDY ON THE TRACK AND I GOT THE PRINCE OF THE CITY WIT ME TELLEM SHORTY YES SIR NIGGAS TRYNA JOC MY STYLE OK I SEE THEM NIGGAS TRYNA JOC MY NIGGAS OK I SEE THEM NIGGAS TRYNA JOC MY STYLE AYE WHAT THEY YELLIN OUT ITS GCB

CHORUS
AYE MAN WE HIT EM WITH THAT WAH WAH WOW WAH WAH WOW WOW WOW WAH WAH WOW OL RATCHET ASS HOE RATCHET ASS HO RATCHET ASS HO RATCHET ASS HO

VERSE 1

AYE SEE YEAH ME MAN I KNOW THEM GURLS THAT COULD BE RATCHET WHOLE GC DONE BEAT IT ON THAT MATTRESS AYE YO I HEAR THEM HATERZ JOCCIN PLEASE ITS GCB WE TELLIN GET OFF OF THESE BEATS IN YO EAR YO LOUDY I GOT MY SWAGG UP AND WHEN I STEP UP IN THE CLUB IM GETTIN HELLAS SUBTRACT THE CLOTHES AND SHE SAY MY PAPER ADD UP SO I TELL HER DIVIDE MY POLE LIKE ITS BAD LUCK HOLD ON HOLD ON MOE HOLD ON MOE YOU DONT WANNA SAY NO MO NIGGAS TALK QUICK BUT THEY MOVE SLO MO AINT SAYIN NO NAMES BUT WHO DONT KNOW HOLD ON HOLD ON MOE HOLD ON MOE WHAT YOU WANNA DO BETTA COME EQUIPT WITH A CLICK THAT THICK IF YOU REALLY WANNA TRIP IMA SHOW YOU WHAT MY CLICK GONE DO

CHORUS

VERSE 2

AYE YO IT STARTED AT THE RIO AMP, ACE ,ZOE, LAST , C-SQUARE AND THEO NOW EVERYWHERE THAT WE GO THEY THROWIN UP THEY HANDS THEY KNOW ITS GCB SO THEY BE LIKE DO YO DANCE WAH WAH WOW JAY J I GOT EM KRAZY, NICKY NICK, SNAKE SHEAUN, YAYA, AND HB NOW LOOK AROUND I CAN SEE WHY THEY HATE ME CUZ GC IS LIKE TV IN HD WAH WAH WOW SHOUT OUT TO MY HOMIIE T-RELL MESSIN WIT US MAN YOU BETTA GAURD YO FEMALES YOU SHRIM NIGGAS YOU GET HIT WITH THEM SEA SHELLS AND WELL LET YO FAMILY KNOW VIA E-MAIL WAH WAH WOW WHEN WE STEP UP IN THE PARTY LIGHT SKINNED GIRLS RUN UP TO YO NIGGA SHORTY DARK SKINNED GURLS RUN UP TO MY NIGGA LOUDY WHEN THE CLUB IS WAY TO OVER CROWDED




Ok and if those two were not bad enough...this one takes the cake!! I mean really who does this...I would hope as women we would have more respect. If not, at least don't publicize it...sweet Jesus. No man is worth all that! You are wondering in what I am referring too? Well without further ado...


Let Me Smell Yo Dick by: Riskay
(Opening)
Nigga this the fifth teeth muthafuckin time that I called and left yo ass messages
I dun text yo bitch ass and you aint responded to nothing
What the fuck is you doin who tha fuck you out there with you think I'm stupid my girls dun already put me up on yo ass tonight night nigga when you get home I got som news foe yo bitch ass

(Chorus 2times)
Why you coming home five in the mone
Somethings going on can I smell yo dick?
Don't play me like a fool cause dat ain't cool
So what you need to do is let me smell yo dick

(Hook 1)
It's four o'clock and I'm sleepin' and it's late night and you creeping you could've told me I'm leavin' now I know you out there cheatin' why you got to do me like dat when I call you don't call me back I'm texting you now nigga where you at that's fucked up why you do me like dat

(Verse 1)
I'm dead sleep and you trickin'
In the club wit dirty foot bitches
My gurl was there she witness
She had a camera phone she took pictures
You was on the dance flo grindin'
With a stripper hoe named Diamond
You was flossin' hard you was shinning
Everything she drink you buyin' it
Fuck nigga you need to stop lien' foe I get mad and pull out my nine
You want a new bitch to fuck that's fine but don't fuck hers and try to fuck mine
You keep tellin me you ain't touch her but some keep tellin me you dun fucked her and I ain't that bitch you want to play wit nigga drop them boxers let me smell yo dick

(Chours 2tyms)
Why you coming home five in the mone
Somethings going on can I smell yo dick?
Don't play me like a fool cause dat ain't cool
So what you need to do is let me smell yo dick

(Unknown)
Smell my dick wait a minute hold up see that's how a bitch get her eyes swoll up and I don't give a damn what yo homegurls seen when I was in the club what the fuck you mean they ain't got no business eyein' me like dat
You ain't got no business tryin' me like dat
I wun even feelin' Diamond like dat I was wildin' but I wasn't clowin' like dat
Dat's alright dat's okay gon head believe what yo homegurl say a nigga like me drink a lot of liquor meet a lot of bitchs take a lot of pictures
I might break bread wit one or two strippers but that don't mean you got to pull my zipper
Thinking I dick down the whole town even though I got dick to go around

(Chorus 2times)
Why you coming home five in the mone
Somethings going on can I smell yo dick?
Don't play me like a fool cause dat ain't cool
So what you need to do is let me smell yo dick.




Ok so honestly tell me your thinking...

I know I am!! What in the friggin world?! The music world is flooded with this mess! Its not just contained to RnB and Rap. Please don't get it twisted I have heard some crazy Rock songs encouraging suicide and country songs about depression an violence as well. I just chose these three since these are genres I listen too. Please, please people we have got to do better in the music we make and as consumers where we put our money!